{"id":5010,"date":"2012-03-24T11:50:40","date_gmt":"2012-03-24T03:50:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/membinalegasi.com\/v1\/?p=5010"},"modified":"2012-03-24T12:16:34","modified_gmt":"2012-03-24T04:16:34","slug":"antara-narcisissist-dakwah-sosial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/membinalegasi.com\/v1\/antara-narcisissist-dakwah-sosial\/","title":{"rendered":"Antara narcisissist, dakwah, sosial"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sekarang ada ramai mengaitkan FB dan narcissism.<\/p>\n<p>FB boleh jadi penyakit seperti dadah yang diambil lebih. Namun pada dos yang sesuai, dadah menjadi ubat (pasti ada kesan sampingan besar atau kecil).<\/p>\n<p>FB boleh jadi tempat dakwah. FB boleh jadi tempat sosial. Tidak sama sosial dan dakwah offline. Namun kalau ruang dakwah dan sosial dikaitkan dengan narcissism semata-mata kerana ada pihak yang pernag menggunakan terlebih FB, penilaian ini perlu dilihat saksama.<\/p>\n<p>Kata Wikipedia,<\/p>\n<p><strong>Narcissism<\/strong>\u00a0is a term with a wide range of meanings, depending on whether it is used to describe a central concept of\u00a0<a title=\"Psychoanalytic theory\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Psychoanalytic_theory\">psychoanalytic theory<\/a>, a\u00a0<a title=\"Mental illness\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Mental_illness\">mental illness<\/a>, a social or cultural problem, or simply a\u00a0<a title=\"Character orientation\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Character_orientation\">personality trait<\/a>. Except in the sense of\u00a0<a title=\"Primary narcissism\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Primary_narcissism\">primary narcissism<\/a>\u00a0or\u00a0<a title=\"Healthy narcissism\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Healthy_narcissism\">healthy self-love<\/a>, &#8220;narcissism&#8221; usually is used to describe some kind of problem in a person or group&#8217;s relationships with self and others. In everyday speech, &#8220;narcissism&#8221; often means\u00a0<a title=\"Egoism\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Egoism\">egoism<\/a>,\u00a0<a title=\"Vanity\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Vanity\">vanity<\/a>,\u00a0<a title=\"wikt:conceit\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wiktionary.org\/wiki\/conceit\">conceit<\/a>, or simple\u00a0<a title=\"Selfish\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Selfish\">selfishness<\/a>. Applied to a\u00a0<a title=\"Social group\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Social_group\">social group<\/a>, it is sometimes used to denote\u00a0<a title=\"Elitism\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Elitism\">elitism<\/a>\u00a0or an indifference to the plight of others. In\u00a0<a title=\"Psychology\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Psychology\">psychology<\/a>, the term is used to describe both normal\u00a0<a title=\"Self-love\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Self-love\">self-love<\/a>\u00a0and unhealthy\u00a0<a title=\"wikt:self-absorbed\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wiktionary.org\/wiki\/self-absorbed\">self-absorption<\/a>\u00a0due to a disturbance in the sense of self.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kesan narcissm<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dari Wikipedia,<\/p>\n<p>Thomas suggests that narcissists typically display most, sometimes all, of the following traits:<sup id=\"cite_ref-4\"><a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Narcissism#cite_note-4\">[5]<\/a><\/sup><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>An obvious self-focus in interpersonal exchanges<\/li>\n<li>Problems in sustaining satisfying relationships<\/li>\n<li>A lack of psychological awareness (see\u00a0<a title=\"Insight in psychology and psychiatry\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Insight_in_psychology_and_psychiatry\">insight in psychology and psychiatry<\/a>,\u00a0<a title=\"Egosyntonic\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Egosyntonic\">egosyntonic<\/a>)<\/li>\n<li>Difficulty with\u00a0<a title=\"Empathy\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Empathy\">empathy<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Problems distinguishing the self from others (see\u00a0<a title=\"Personal boundaries\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Personal_boundaries#Narcissism_and_boundaries\">narcissism and boundaries<\/a>)<\/li>\n<li>Hypersensitivity to any insults or imagined\u00a0<a title=\"Insults\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Insults\">insults<\/a>\u00a0(see\u00a0<a title=\"Criticism\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Criticism#Criticism_and_narcissists\">criticism and narcissists<\/a>,\u00a0<a title=\"Narcissistic rage and narcissistic injury\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Narcissistic_rage_and_narcissistic_injury\">narcissistic rage and narcissistic injury<\/a>)<\/li>\n<li><a title=\"Vulnerability\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Vulnerability\">Vulnerability<\/a>\u00a0to\u00a0<a title=\"Shame\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Shame\">shame<\/a>\u00a0rather than\u00a0<a title=\"Guilt\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Guilt\">guilt<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Haughty\u00a0<a title=\"Body language\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Body_language\">body language<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a title=\"Flattery\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Flattery\">Flattery<\/a>\u00a0towards people who admire and affirm them (<a title=\"Narcissistic supply\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Narcissistic_supply\">narcissistic supply<\/a>)<\/li>\n<li>Detesting those who do not admire them (<a title=\"Narcissistic abuse\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Narcissistic_abuse\">narcissistic abuse<\/a>)<\/li>\n<li>Using other people without considering the cost of doing so<\/li>\n<li>Pretending to be more important than they really are<\/li>\n<li><a title=\"Bragging\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Bragging\">Bragging<\/a>\u00a0(subtly but persistently) and\u00a0<a title=\"Exaggerating\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Exaggerating\">exaggerating<\/a>\u00a0their achievements<\/li>\n<li>Claiming to be an &#8220;expert&#8221; at many things<\/li>\n<li>Inability to view the world from the perspective of other people<\/li>\n<li><a title=\"Denial\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Denial\">Denial<\/a>\u00a0of\u00a0<a title=\"Remorse\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Remorse\">remorse<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a title=\"Gratitude\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Gratitude\">gratitude<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Sombong dan narcissism<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Istilah narcisissm adalah istilah psikologi. Dalam Islam, ia dikaitkan dengan hati samada buat kerana Allah atau kerana manusia. Apabila dibuat kerana manusia, ia akan mewujudkan narcissism. Kalau buat kerana Allah, ia akan mewujudkan rasa merendah diri.<\/p>\n<p>Ada istilah azillah dalam al-Quran bagi sesama mukmin. Ada istilah aizzah bersama bukan Muslim. Sombong? Bukan.<\/p>\n<p>Solat sunat di khalayak, sombong ? Tidak. Tapi kalau kita tinggalkan, kita tinggalkan kerana manusia. Itu menyalahi ciri individu yang baik. Narcissism kerana pentingkan diri dilihat oleh orang lain &#8216;tidak sombong&#8217;?<\/p>\n<p>Kekadang ada istilah psikologi yang dikaji tidak berteraskan sumber ilmu yang sama dengan kita. Kesannya ? Istilah baru seronok diguna, tetapi tidak tentu pasal dari mana sumber dan arah tujunya.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sekarang ada ramai mengaitkan FB dan narcissism. FB boleh jadi penyakit seperti dadah yang diambil lebih. 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